Two entries in such a short period of time! Is the world coming to an end?!
I was actually just looking back at the last few entries, and they made me kind of sad. It made me realize, I've had less ups than downs in the past year and a half (or maybe it just seems that way since I focus on the negative things more than I do on the positive ones). The most positive thing in my life during this time, has been my relationship with Nate. There is no doubt about this at all. Even before we started dating, he didn't mind listening to me babble about all my problems when I didn't feel like I had anyone else who would listen. He has almost always been there for me, even though times haven't been the greatest to him either. He has always been so amazingly supportive of me, and completely understanding, even during rough times. I can honestly say, I don't know what I would have done without his support.
So, the last year and a half = not so good. And some of it, was from my own stupid mistakes, I admit it. I never should have stayed with Andrea, especially when I had bad feelings about it to begin with. I should have made myself go to work more often, even if I felt scared sometimes. I should have spoke my mind more often to dad after mom left.
There are a lot of things, I could have done differently. And a lot of things other people could have done differently. If I could, I would like to change a lot of things about the last year and a half.
I would have stood up to dad more often, and told him "NO! I don't want to spend another lonely weekend by myself while everyone else is out doing their own stuff." I should have just told him that I hated it when he would drink, and that it really bugged me, especially after the stuff that happened in the summer. Maybe I should have initially moved in with mom when she asked. I should have MADE dad take me to the doctor when I was sick and could hardly move from my bed for days. I should have told him that I hate Sharon, and that I hated how he spent every free moment of his time talking with her/being with her. I should have told him that I hated how he spent his money, and my money going to see Sharon, instead of paying for house bills. I should have told him how depressed I felt being stuck by myself all the time, and that I hated how everyone was taking advantage of how nice I am.
I guess, this is mostly a rant, that leads to how much I still hate dad. I don't even feel bad to say it. I hate my dad. I really tried not to, I felt bad about it to begin with, but I don't anymore. I have NO respect for him whatsoever. I dread talking to him, because it feels like nothing good can come from it.
Maybe I'm being selfish, and was being selfish then too, I don't know. Is it so wrong for me to have wanted someone to talk to me, other than to tell me to clean, or to ask for money to pay for bills (which didn't get paid even when I gave him money for them)...I just, hate him.
Oct 26, 2007
Ghostbusters Chat Log
And now, just because I find it cute, here is a conversation Nate and I had while watching Ghostbusters...Enjoi pls.
Oct 1, 2007
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